So many thoughts run through my head. I know I will offend someone with this posting...but it is not my intention to do so. It is only my intention to make awareness of thinking before your posting. It has bothered me from the moment I read the post and I can't seem to shrug it off. Maybe it was because I was one of many young girls growing up feeling awkward with my looks and my body. I didn't ask to have more than my fair share up top. I didn't ask to be teased because of it. I to this day struggle with the fact that I don't fit in and I don't belong when it comes to my outer appearance. How sad that I can not accept how God created me.
Our teens of today can not seem to think or look outside the box. As parent's we need to encourage them to see how their comments might make someone else feel. That their actions sometimes also speak more loudly than their words. I don't understand how many of these teens think it is acceptable to put up with a boyfriend or girlfriend who goes against everything they believe just because that person is popular. It is right to put up with someone who smokes pot? Is it right to put up with someone who parties and drinks all the time? It is right to put up with someone who cheats on you...unless that is part of your agreement that it is fair for both of you? I hear about this from so many teens and how many of these teens think that other teens in these relationships are such fools. Good for you for realizing it. I was going to go further with this but decided it will do me no good to do so.
The beauty of life gives us the opportunity to be an amazing living being. It is up to you to choose wisely and live the best life you can live. Some people do all they can to try to live the best life they can but seem to get knocked down over and over again. How many obstacles do they need to overcome before that one obstacle allows them to continue on with improving themselves? I know we think that life is unfair. We ask many times......Why Me? We are always told that God only gives us what he thinks we can handle. I have been touched by so many people that can ask this same question and are battling enormous obstacles right now.They are excepting what was dealt and moving forward. I give them such huge kudos. I don't know how they are doing it.
I guess I have rambled in this post. I can't seem to focus. The many thoughts running wild in my head are keeping me from staying on track. Welcome to my world. It is like this all the time. I guess since this is my blog and I can ramble however I want...right? I change subjects all the time and drive my husband crazy. Sometimes he can't seem to keep up. I really think I have adult ADHD. I have learned that I need to really think before I post..thus why I am not posting on Facebook unless it is to my kids, business...or a friends post that is a positive comment. I can't risk letting my feelings blow me up.
So to close....respect yourself....respect those around you and treat others as you would want to be treated.
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